I had a fantastic meeting with one of my colleagues and we both come from a “corporate employee” background and become business owners. We were comparing notes and take out a few differences in circumstances, we basically have a very similar story:
– Brought up with the “employee” mindset, work hard, get a good job, good grades and do whatever your boss wants.
– Keep doing that over and over again. Don’t work on businesses as they are risky.
– Get noticed at work and get that promotion.
Well, I know I am speaking a pretty solid message these days and this old mindset is obviously kaput in this modern, “Post-GFC” world. One point we really clicked was employment conditions prior / post the GFC and the start of the world-wide recession.
The reality is that whatever power was in the hands of the employee has drastically swung to that of the employer. Pre-GFC things I think were much more balanced and as an employee one had some rights and quite a few options, but these days the job boards suggest it’s the other way around. That is, for every job – there is an endless line of recruits available and employers know it! I find small businesses are much better at looking after their workers, and this is more aimed at the corporates – i.e. they are pure economic machines and they churn and burn innocent workers as need be.
When we compared notes about our histories, we found some great commonalities of experiences – one point that really resonated was the line you may have heard:
“The world is tough and we are going through cut-backs. You are very lucky to be here, wages won’t go up like they used too and you need to work harder. But consider it a privilege that you have a job and you should be happy.”
Wow. This is quite profound. Before you think I am on a communist style rant where we are all entitled to jobs, no I am not a communist and believe in capitalism and free enterprise. But we have both heard this line almost exact word for word and to be it has some scary connotations that tells us where the employment world has gone. It’s a disturbing trend whereby we are working harder, for less money and only getting poorer as time passes.
There is an obvious shift in our economy which has been trending like this for a while and is even more dramatic – the workplace isn’t the safe haven it once was and it’s going from the “two-way employment” type scenario to an obvious “master / slave” relationship.
After one of my worst employers ever personally screwed me over – they served our relationship with this basic line “well, you chose to work here, you have options and I can do whatever I like to you”. To me, many are hearing this more and more and where I went wrong in my life was indulging myself in “positive thinking” – that is, instead of reading the signs and understanding the degradation of the corporate workplace (except for a few employers which I think are great!) I went all happy clappy positive like the positive thinkers tell you to do. I wasted a good 5 – 8 years of my life doing this and they are some years I am not getting back.
In my own personal death of positive thinking my lovely colleague is in the similar boat – i.e. having many of their own “One held truths” being killed off one by one in a sad, but completely objective and factual manner.
Hence the requiem of positive thinking for many of us – I think it can be a great means of escapism but like any drug – it’ short term effects are overtaken by dramatic consequences that are not only painful to ourselves, but our families.
So, I have been obviously “very negative” here, but tell me – do you think I am wrong? I would doubt it big time, to me this reinforces my thinking – by admitting that things are screwed, it puts us in a position where we can do something and get some powerful results.
It could be working hard for another job, starting a business, moving departments, studying – anything, i.e. playing the hand we are dealt and creatively working through it.
The big trick to this is that the “wrong” companies will basically beat you up, keep your self-esteem love and get you believing why you should hand over your dreams to them and not take any action to improve your situation that is against their own selfish (and at times) purely evil agendas.
So my big lesson after surviving this and meeting other people is hang in there, ignore everyone and “listen to yourself” – biased advice from the wrong people is certainly not there for your benefit!
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