Archives April 2012

Why are Bullies SCUM and Weak Defenders?

Remember, they cannot be reasoned with!

Remember, they cannot be reasoned with!

Although my story is “Sad”, I know it’s unfortunately quite common – and there are plenty of people out there who had it worse than me.

When I was growing up, being the “Fat Kid”, Middle Eastern and also carrying my Birthmark – I was really the subject of ridicule to the extreme.  It really impacted me for many years.

I used to run around “Feeling Sorry for myself” and “Sulking” and all that – but in my early 20’s, I realized that I had nothing compared to what others faced.

The reality I have found is that regardless of age, creed, gender or religion – bullies exist everyone and are scum that really deserve to be punished.  They are the type of bottom feeders that have no ethics and enjoy watching innocent people suffer.

I have made it almost an artwork of counter-striking against bullies as I hate them scum bags with every fibre of my being.  What I find quite funny about all of them is that Bullies are almost always strong attackers but very weak defenders.

That is right – I remember one household I was living us when I was younger.  This old man by the name of Frank owned the house and had about 4 students living there (including me).  He used to terrorize us and this poor 19 year old girl that lived there.  I used to “Put Up with It” (which was my mistake) and one day he went too far yelling at this poor girl.

We had a shouting competition (which I won) and then he left us alone for good! He asked me to leave (which I was great with) – but for a man that was always in our faces, he didn’t even have the balls to look at me in the eyes anymore.

I got plenty examples of bullies like this – ranging from the School Yard to the workplace.

The reality is that bullies are naturally weak people.  They aren’t always evil, but usually they are.  And bullies deserve on thing, PUNISHMENT and PAIN.

So if someone is being bullied by someone, it’s our duty as victiums of bullying to gang up on them and stop them.

But one must be careful of becoming what we hate (as I almost did this).  Once a bully is taken care of and backs down, apologizes or surrenders – leave them alone.  Hurt them and hurt them hard ONLY IN DEFENSE!

Remembers, bullies are usually strong attackers but weak defenders.  So hit them back hard and watch them cry in front of you.  It’s fun! Nothing like carrying out God’s work of Punishing the wicked.  Go Jesus!

Evil Nutjobs and their Quest into your Bank Account!

They Shonks would if they could!

The Shonks would if they could!

Lately I have heard this expression come up more and more in that “You Should Never Leave Money on the Table?”.  I only heard this expression maybe a year ago – and like all things, I really learn both sides of the coin before taking a side.

I understand conceptually the point of “Not Leaving Money on the Table”.  That is – my ethical / noble take of it is lets say you meet with someone, it’s really good to establish some way you can help each other before you leave.  Be it buy their services, sell, refer or just support each other.

However, I have seen it’s dark underbelly show up yet again in that when you meet with some people, they really really try hard to take your money by any means possible.  That is, I have heard war stories of people:

– Trying to oversell.  That is – their services are not appropriate for the other and they keep going without any ethics.

– They make out they want to meet for innocent means and then hit you up at the table to join some type of scheme (i.e. a big issue around Sydney right now).

– They try and get you to do something to serve only their agenda and pay little to no attention to yours.

The Top Earners I personally know and work with – about 9 /10 of them are team players, contributors, and only enter sustainable “Win-Win” agreements.  I know the odd rich toad, but in my experience over the last few years – most rich are quite noble type of characters (i.e. the sustainable / long term wealthy).

I have noticed that the poorest people I know are the ones that try to suck you into schemes and usually have a poor reputation around town.

I once met a guy at a Networking Event that did almost all of the above.  They dominated me in the conversation, tried to sell me some crap that they knew wasn’t useful to me.  And then afterwords he “Accidentally” sent me some material on a dodgy scheme.  When I pointed this out, he was all like “Oh Sorry, it was by accident”.

I then said “No thank you, this type of scheme isn’t for me”.

And guess what he did, he kept going! I then stopped replying to his emails and that got rid of him.  Also of interest, you can tell that he certainly didn’t want to leave any money on the table! Provided of course it was all in his wallet!

So please be careful out there boys and girls! I have noticed shonks on the rise in the Sydney Scene and I really hate them all big time.

Happy Easter too! 🙂